Monday, 20 June, 2011

Yes, I Miss You: A confession!

“You never know what you have until you lose it, and once you lose it, you can never get it back.”

It happens that sometimes you feel so odd and gloomy and when you look for a reason for this dimness, you actually fail to find any reason. Why? Is it because you are not happy with your present day? Or maybe your life? Or maybe your phone didn’t ring that day? Or is it because you suddenly start missing someone? 

Okay, tell me one thing. How it feels when you start missing someone for no reason? I personally believe that it’s not necessary to have a reason to miss someone. It’s your right to miss anything or anybody without any solid reason. When I go to any tour or trip, I miss my family. When I’m with my family, I, at times, miss my friends. I even miss my cousins, relatives and my grandmother residing in different cities. But one thing is for sure, they are just a call away, so I don’t feel gloomy. I just call them, eat their mind out and then this *missing someone volcano* which had erupted few moments ago cools down.

But what if you start missing someone with whom you don’t have any type of contact? What if you get a strong urge to talk to that person again after years? Suddenly, you start realizing that deep down in your heart you still think about that person, and still you feel for that person. You’re shocked! You’re amazed! Why is it happening again? You try to run away from this strange feeling, in fact you try very hard. Later, you realize that the more you try to run away from this feeling, the more you get wrapped up in these weird wires of emotions.

What to do now? You don’t want to get through this outlandish sensation all over again. You shed tears, you cry and you scream. You now start looking for something to get you engaged, so that you don’t start missing that person again. But everything goes in vain, you don't have any choice but to confess to yourself, that yes, still you miss that someone. Believe me, missing someone is a very terrible emotion, because it’s something on which you don’t have any control.

Recently, I was going through these brainless emotions. It was really bad, I was missing someone with whom I have not talked for years. It was, in fact, very strange because I never had missed that person in recent years. Now, I really wish to talk to that person. I curse myself for letting that person go so easily.

I only can say that, you may not realize the worth of a person till the time he’s with you. You only realize it when you don’t have that person to guide you, to smile you and to love you. You realize that you’re so hollow without that special one. Now, there’s no one who would actually listen to your rubbish without any complaints. Actually, you’re so incomplete.

Trust me, never let anyone go from your life easily. You may regret it later.


  1. but then its not in our hand, all pre-written ..destiny . Nice read :)

  2. Missing someone is one of the most universal human'd never know it, but maybe the person you were referring to is feeling the exact same way....

    Nice post!!

  3. True, but then, why not get back to them, and talk. Possible that there is now no contact now, but the world is a small place, ain't it?

    Blasphemous Aesthete

  4. great are right...but it is never too late to talk and try to get back what was lost...

  5. If there is even a percent chance you could talk to that person not think twice.

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  7. nice post.very well said missing someone is not in our control

  8. Sanjana,

    I agree with you that it is only absence of a person which makes us realise his or her worth. If this happens to me, either I try to locate that person and if it is not possible, then enjoy fond memories leaving out unwanted ones.

    Take care

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  10. same here...i am also missing someone..and just wanna talk to her but i cant....if i can go back i could change the things than i will never let her go...Max x time goes in thinking of her...

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